{"id":16817,"date":"2013-12-13T10:42:38","date_gmt":"2013-12-13T15:42:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mediastorm.com\/blog\/?p=16817"},"modified":"2013-12-13T10:42:38","modified_gmt":"2013-12-13T15:42:38","slug":"phillip-toledano-is-the-reluctant-father","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/2013\/12\/13\/phillip-toledano-is-the-reluctant-father\/","title":{"rendered":"Phillip Toledano Is &#8220;The Reluctant Father&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_16818\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-16818\" style=\"width: 511px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/thereluctantfather.com\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-16818\" alt=\"\" src=\"\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/loulou-e1386793202219.jpg\" width=\"511\" height=\"639\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/loulou-e1386793202219.jpg 511w, https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/loulou-e1386793202219-239x300.jpg 239w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 511px) 100vw, 511px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-16818\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo: Phillip Toledano<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/mediastorm.com\/contributor\/phillip-toledano\/1273\" target=\"_blank\">Phillip Toledano<\/a> became a father at the age of forty. He fell in love with his daughter about a year and a half later. His latest book, <a href=\"http:\/\/thereluctantfather.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><em>The Reluctant Father<\/em><\/a>, follows Toledano&#8217;s journey at the beginning of fatherhood.\u00a0Grappling with the expectations and reality of being a new father, and the vast differences between them, he produces a surprisingly honest, funny, and moving account that he hopes his daughter won&#8217;t hold it against him later.<\/p>\n<p>In many ways it is a sequel to the best-selling <a href=\"http:\/\/thereluctantfather.com\/\"><em>Days with My Father<\/em><\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=mediastorm01-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1452119414\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" \/>, a documentation of the three years Phillip spent taking care of his father, who suffered from dementia, and inspired his MediaStorm collaboration, <a href=\"http:\/\/mediastorm.com\/publication\/a-shadow-remains\" target=\"_blank\"><em>A Shadow Remains<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->&#8220;When you have a child, she becomes your past, present and future. I not only see myself and [my wife] Carla in Loulou, but I see my parents too,&#8221; Phillip says.<\/p>\n<p>You can purchase <em>The Reluctant Father<\/em> on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1905928092\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1905928092&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=mediastorm01-20\">Amazon<\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=mediastorm01-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1905928092\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" \/>, and watch <em>A Shadow Remains<\/em> on <a href=\"http:\/\/mediastorm.com\/publication\/a-shadow-remains\" target=\"_blank\">MediaStorm.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><!-- MediaStorm Player Embed Code --><script id=\"mediastorm-player-e52a8c6ddb72b6542002\" type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"https:\/\/player.mediastorm.com\/players\/embed?id=e52a8c6ddb72b6542002&amp;w=512&amp;h=395&amp;lang=none\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Phillip Toledano became a father at the age of forty. He fell in love with his daughter about a year and a half later. His latest book, The Reluctant Father, follows Toledano&#8217;s journey at the beginning of fatherhood.\u00a0Grappling with the expectations and reality of being a new father, and the vast differences between them, he [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":31,"featured_media":16818,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,13],"tags":[1011,1656,1007,1655],"class_list":["post-16817","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-multimedia-projects","category-storytelling","tag-a-shadow-remains","tag-days-with-my-father","tag-phillip-toledano","tag-the-reluctant-father","entry","has-media"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16817","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/31"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16817"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16817\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16818"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16817"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16817"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mediastorm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16817"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}